Monday, 23 May 2011

Who are the Single Mommas?

Well lets see moi Kristy I have a 5 year old amazing son and have been a 100% single mom the whole time. Trying to......well even thinking about dating again after having my son was awkward and it took me till he was about 1 1/2 to really try it again (you know something about breastfeeding and lactating on the first date makes you feel super sexxy). Anyways I've dated had a serious relationship that didn't work out and it's hard to continue the search for my forever man (pending he even exists) after continuous let downs but I think it takes alot of courage to put yourself back out there and let someone into your heart so hopefully this journey brings some lessons learned and farther along the path to my invisible forever man haha.

So I'm Laura and the sunshine of my life is my adorable four year old baby girl.  After having her i looked at dating a whole different way...i dated for two not one which has equaled well lets say....like zero real dates...yup thats right zero.   I had a brief or glimpse into a relationship last summer and when he dropped the L bomb and the fact that he never wanted kids in the same 24 hrs ...lets just say that might have confused me.  So now im getting creative and thinking outside the box cause what ive been doing the last ten years is way past a fail!! so hopefully this leads me to a decent guy or atleast some funny stories about dating douche bags along the way!!

Well you fine people out there feel free to share any advice or tips where we can find some hot date.......or just some funny stories. Stay tuned for later this week when we reveal our "online dating" experiment it's a gooder

Sunday, 8 May 2011

Happy Mothers Day

Just wanted to take a moment to wish all you mommas out there a happy mothers day. We have the most wonderful, difficult, and most rewarding job in the world :). I know our kids often drive us nuts but I'm sure I speak for all parents when I say they take our breath away even more and are more than worth it. I know for me mothers day is a day I take some time to reflect on myself as a parent and spend some quality time with my child.

Thursday, 5 May 2011

Introduction

Soooo this is our first time blogging, but after bouncing back and forth with some funny and not so funny dating stories we figured there's got to be more single mommas or parents that can relate to the chaos of trying to date with children, or just dating in a small town in general.

Let's start by introducing ourselves, we are 2 single moms age 25 and 27 and both have been pretty much single since the babies popped out.....literally. It was like "baby I love you lets have baby" BAM there's baby and then another BAM daddy's high tailing it outta there and you got yourself a single momma. So our kids are between 4-6 and dating the last 4-6 years has been well lets just say interesting.

We have tried the online dating and met ourselves some "creepers". we've tried the friends through friends and well lets just admit it when it doesn't work out it's just down right awkward. We've tried strolling the grocery stores and people stare but lets face it......no one talks in person anymore. So this blog is to share some funny stories and try some new dating techniques, we're thinking of hittin up Home Depot and experimenting more with online dating and see where this road takes us. Stay tuned for some good past stories and I"m sure some future gooders to come ;)